"O"

This post here is for the ladies. Men, feel free to read but, ladies this is a discussion we must have. For to long it has been taboo, a secret, dirty and something we just didn't talk about. We must break the silence. Yes I am talking about the big "O".
I realize the sad fact that there is an alarmingly large number of women who have never experienced this wonderful thing. No men, most wont admit it to you, they are afraid of hurting your feelings. The fact that a lot have never had one is horrible but the fact that they don't talk about it is a tragedy.
As a woman I understand that for years society has beat in our heads that sex is something we just are supposed to do yet not really enjoy. If we enjoy it to much that makes us a whore. This is a horrible myth probably created by some man who was really horrible in bed. These women tend to have mixed feelings of guilt, confusion and anger. These same women tend to feel as if their husbands are doing something wrong or are just not very good in bed. Which is probably true, BUT.....
Men are not equipped with a vagina. If you, the owner of said vagina, don't know what makes it feel good or how to work it then why would they?? You have to teach them what you like, if you don't know how it works you cant teach them. Let me assure you, and guys back me up on this, your man will be extremely grateful for your input. They want you to feel good. Every woman is different, therefore every woman's equipment is different. What worked for his ex may not be what gets your motor running. How is he going to know if you don't tell him??!!
Trust me, the first time the big "O" knocks on your door the excitement to feel that way again will outway any embarrassment you may feel about telling him how to make it visit again.
So ladies, embrace your body, embrace your sexuality. It is not dirty or shameful. Teach him how to work it, you'll thank me later.